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"I appreciate your thoughts and no. In the best interest of our association, we need to build leaders from our new members. I've kept on eye on Stephen all year and I believe he would do well on our board. Thank you for supporting my decision." guilt in your voice! or
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"I appreciate you thinking of me but no that won't work for me and my family. Let me think about some other creative ideas and get back with you within the week." or
"No thank you, I'm not prepared to do that this year. Next year I will commit to that." or
"No, but I WILL take the Easter Holiday. We can all meet at a restaurant for dinner and then go to my house for the Easter Egg Hunt and dessert."
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